If you saw these words on a sign, it might appear to represent an established street or pathway. Our desire, however, is to share the path of our lives as we respond to God’s direction in these days, to present a work-in-progress to our family and friends (known and yet unknown). Our lives have been shaped and molded separately and then together by God’s hand. Here, however, we will specifically address our steps through this time of life called “retirement.”
Friday, December 22, 2023
2023 Christmas Letter
Wednesday, December 21, 2022
2022 Christmas letter
Dear Family and Friends,
The tree is up, but not yet decorated and there’s lots to do before Christmas Day arrives!
This new year started with Dan’s new Toyota Tacoma, which he immediately accessorized with running boards and extra lights. I was just thankful that he also lowered the height so I can climb in the passenger side!
In 2022, we’ve seen our doctors virtually and in person; we’ve exercised with online classes, in-person group classes at the Y with masks, and finally without masks. So far, we’ve avoided Covid and gotten all our immunizations for Covid, flu, and pneumonia.
Early in the year, I volunteered to help a small local Nazarene church with their bookkeeping when their bookkeeper passed away last December. There’s been a learning curve, but I managed to catch up their books on new software and improve their record-keeping. It actually has been fun for me! They’ve been pleased, so I was asked to continue as their church treasurer starting in January!
It was also fun for me to help organize, with 2 other women, BFCN’s (Belleville First Church of the Nazarene) Easter Breakfast. There, Dan attends monthly Men’s Breakfasts, and we are part of 2 Life Groups for fellowship and Bible study. JoyFM, where I used to work, offered a women’s concert in May; several of us girls from BFCN attended and had a wonderful evening.
May also brought a missionary family (friends of ours) our way, so we hosted them for a couple of nights, even taking them to a Cardinals game before they went on with their time in the U.S. before returning to the Philippines.
We were asked to attend some training sessions in Kansas City to assist missionaries as they use new financial software. Still a part of the Nazarene Missions Tech Team, Dan is often referenced to help make technical things work as he assists others around the Illinois District as well. It is good to be useful.
It was a wet spring and a HOT summer, but we grew lots of blackberries! Dan spent many hours keeping the yard and gardens thriving! We attended several Cardinals games in person (we watch the rest on TV), along with several wonderful musicals at The Muny in Forest Park. My favorite was “Mary Poppins” – so professional and fun! Summer also included Food Truck Fridays in Tower Grove Park – yum! And we always invite folks to join us on our screened porch to enjoy 4th of July fireworks that we can see for miles!
In July, we attended the Illinois District Assembly. Unfortunately, we lost the District Missions President the day before the meeting. A few weeks later, Dan was asked to be the new District President of Nazarene Missions International (NMI). The district area is the southern
2/3 of the state. While we’d been volunteer missionaries for 12 years, he’s never been involved in this support organization. He’s facing a significant learning curve but has a good council of folks to go through all the experiences with him, as they rebuild interest and activities of the NMI that were limited during the Covid years. We’re hoping for some Missions Team (Work & Witness) trips in 2023!
July was a busy month – we finally got to celebrate our 25th anniversary (a year late) with our dream of an Alaskan glacier cruise and it was wonderful on Royal Caribbean’s Ovation of the Seas.
This year was an expensive one as well – we had to replace our computers (over 10 years old), our cell phones, and our home’s HVAC system.
In October, Dan was able to attend several training days for NMI presidents in the US. And, on Districts each fall and spring, there’s usually been a missionary speaking tour scheduled. Covid had precluded any early scheduling of a missionary so, a few days after Dan returned, we spoke in 9 churches/zones (in a 2-week period) around the Illinois District about our missionary journey in “God’s retirement plan”. I helped by sharing some of our blog entries of our experiences.
In November, Dan drove us out to Marcy’s home for Thanksgiving (5 days of driving and 2 days of visiting). She’s now an SRO (school resource officer) while serving as a local police officer. It was great to spend some time with her! Monica is the only one living near us now, but she’s a very busy lady in a serious relationship, sings at her church, runs races literally all over the country, and seems to enjoy her full-time job in the county auditor’s office.
Erica visited for Mother’s Day and my birthday in August and in November as she ran her 7th Hot Chocolate 15K Race. Janet enjoyed a surprise Facetime call with Adam on her birthday that we all enjoyed. Derick and Darin are both still in North Carolina. We have
Looks like we’ll celebrate Christmas a few days later this year, when we can get a few family members gathered here! Skype, Zoom, Facebook, and other social media will have to do for the others others.
As the years keep going by more quickly, we surely do wish to see more of our friends and family! As God continues to bless us with good health, we keep busy but love to make time for those we care about. Please let us know when you’re near the St. Louis area so we can connect!
Wishing you all God’s blessings in this wonderful season!
With Love and Appreciation for all,
Blessings, Dan & Janet
Wednesday, September 14, 2022
Summer of new things
This will break our recent years' pattern of using the Christmas letter to cover the full year. Suddenly this summer, we are finding our days and weeks filling with more than the routine exercise classes at the Y.
It started with a call from our church global missions office asking if we could be available to with a new project that, in most cases, we could do from home. They are changing a number of the computer finance tools that the missionaries use and the staff felt that our skills could be useful as part of the support team during the transition. As we learned more of the details and plans, we agreed. The full schedule is not clear but this certainly does not look like a short term project and we are okay with that.Alaskan glacier |
Then, at this year's Illinois District Assembly, we tragically learned of the passing of the District's Missions president the night before. A few weeks later I (Dan) was having a text conversation with the District Superintendent about some changes on the district web site when he mentioned that he was gathering names of possible candidates to fill the missions position. I went on with the site work and then asked if he had been hinting in some way. He responded, "Well, yes, sort of." I responded that because I had no experience or knowledge of the district level missions organization, I was not interested. However, that being said, I was available... Soon he responded by asking that I prepare a bio for consideration to go with the others he was gathering. A few days later, he called to inform me that I had been elected if I would accept! If you have been around this blog for very long, you know that we have learned that God's plans are far better than ours. So I accepted with no clue of what this meant or how I could fulfill it. What I told God that night was this is ALL ABOUT HIM!
In the meantime, Janet has been volunteering at a Nazarene church not far from ours in Belleville as their bookkeeper after theirs passed away, leaving books that needed to be reorganized and redone. She keeps busy feeding us healthy meals, some from harvesting our prolific blackberry vines, the single small apple tree that resulted in 1/2 gal of apple butter, and our vegetable garden.
So as you can see, we have new opportunities and responsibilities God has once again led us into. HIS guidance and your prayers are all we need going on from here.
Friday, December 17, 2021
2021 Christmas letter
Dear Friends and
Family,
The
weeks & months have flown by in another very different year! And 2021 is
almost over! We got our first 2 Covid vaccinations
in February and March, then the booster in November. We wear masks as needed
and have stayed well. We
attended too many funerals this year, many due to the Covid pandemic.
Dan
had a fall off a short step ladder in early March that resulted in a badly
bruised hip but thankfully no broken bones.
Meanwhile, I enjoyed some physical therapy for my painful knees.
We
drove to Fairhaven, MA for granddaughter Megan’s baby shower in May, staying in
a bayside cottage, near Marcy. Ben & Megan’s baby Ember Lynn was born May
30! She’s awfully cute!
This summer we replaced most of our
main floor with hardwood – it looks beautiful and changes the whole look of our
home. In preparation, I asked Dan to paint the 2 main floor bedrooms. What a great
refresh after 14 years in this house!
Dan made it easy on me for his
birthday and Father’s Day, choosing his own new gas grill. We’ve certainly
enjoyed the benefits!
Erica
moved in with us for 5 months; over the summer she worked for Salt & Smoke,
a local barbecue restaurant (we didn’t mind the perks!), while still looking
for work back in Columbus, OH. She applied for and earned an assistant manager
position at one of 5 huge food service buildings at Ohio State University,
moving back there in late August.
We harvested an incredible stash of blackberries once again (gave away lots and froze a bunch too) but had only a handful of apples (à no apple butter) this year. We’ll hope for a better harvest next year! Dan takes wonderful care of our home, yard, and gardens!
Having missed last summer’s cancelled shows at The Muny in Forest Park, we were glad to be able to see 5 musicals this year and look forward to a full summer of 7 shows next year. We got to several Cardinals games and didn’t miss many Food Truck Fridays in Tower Grove Park either – good summer fun.
Ben & Megan were married in November 2019, but never got to have their wedding/reception until 10/11/21 – it was a lovely ceremony outside, in a farm/barn setting, with a wonderful dinner following.
With
the upside-down markets for vehicles, Dan decided to sell his 17 year old pickup (for more than it was ordinarily worth) and we ordered a new 2022 Toyota Tacoma
(in June). We knew we’d have months to wait, but now this "last-one-we’ll-ever-need" is being delivered around Christmas!!
We’ve
gotten more involved at Belleville First Church, singing in the worship team,
joining a small group for Bible study and fellowship. It’s great being back on
the Illinois District, attending the annual Lay Retreat, renewing friendships,
and (Dan) assisting the District Superintendent with some computer and web site
topics.
We
celebrated Thanksgiving 3 times – with Dan’s sisters, at home with Erica, then
with Monica and family.
I’ve been knitting baby sweaters and blankets; sewing baby blankets and a small patriotic quilt, and some Christmas gifts. More knitting and quilting to come, I’m sure (especially with 3 great-grandchildren under 3 so far…)!
Life is good! God
is good! Praying for our friends and family – for good health and a healthy
reliance on God, who gives all good things!
Thursday, December 31, 2020
2020 Holiday letter
Dear Friends and Family,
We hope you had a Merry, if different, Christmas! Obviously, this year has probably been the most unusual one we’ll ever experienced! And some of those unwanted aspects will continue for a few months into 2021!
For us, the various forms of isolation have given lots of opportunity for reflection on the blessings, opportunities and failures in our lives. But God’s presence is always there, sometimes guiding, sometimes holding, and sometimes shielding and often all at the same time. That is the beauty of the relationship He desires for us all.
The year started out as Dan traveled to India in January to help with IT support of a Nazarene Regional conference. Since the pandemic hit, being retired, we have not been affected nearly as much as friends with full-time jobs and school-aged children. But we felt like we got quite a number of things done at home. I completed quite a few knitting projects, lots of cooking and baking, and Dan has become quite a tree trimmer along with all the house, yard and garden, and computer maintenance! We have continued to exercise at home and walk our neighborhood, especially when our YMCA had to close! Our blackberry vines grew like crazy; I was picking 3-4 quarts of berries each week, freezing most of them. And our crab apple trees were so happy that they produced full-sized apples; we got really good at sharing the work to make several large crock-pot batches of apple butter that we shared with friends and froze some too.Our subdivision stepped up to the challenge of school and work at home too! On our Briar Lake Facebook page, mothers asked that we put teddy bears in a window for the little ones to count on morning walks. We all added Easter eggs and encouraging signs in windows as well. We met more neighbors while walking. We shared games and puzzles. One woman baked lots of bread and we purchased several kinds. I helped communicate with food trucks to bring in some no-cooking nights through the summer. The shaved ice truck may have been the most popular!
Dylan graduated from high school; Monica had an outdoor, drive-by party for him at home. We reluctantly helped Erica load a U-Haul and move to Columbus, Ohio; she currently works in an Amazon facility but is still looking for something more closely related to her food service/ inventory experience. Marcy’s daughter Megan married a great guy, Ben, in 2019, but had to postpone their big 2020 wedding reception until October of 2021… However, we just found out that she is expecting a little one in June (who will be our 6th great-grandchild), so we’ll see what kind of parties will really be planned for 2021!
We changed church membership to Belleville First Church of the Nazarene over the summer. Shortly after we joined them the pastor resigned to take a church in Florida (NOT our fault…). We have a new pastor coming at the end of January. With this and all the COVID isolation we’re looking forward to becoming closer to this group of new friends (we shared blackberry cobbler with some on our screened porch) and to new ways of serving there.In September we ventured out, driving to Gulf Shores, Alabama, for a couple of days of beach time to celebrate our 24th anniversary. It was good to get away, enjoying the sun and salt water and plenty of good food!
We’re so grateful to God for keeping us healthy and supplying everything we need! We celebrated Thanksgiving and Christmas by ourselves (and on family Zoom meetings), stayed well so far, and are looking forward to surviving the winter and getting a vaccine as soon as it’s our turn! Facebook has been a great place to stay in touch with people! We love hearing from you and can’t wait to take road trips again!
Take care of each other and Happy New Year 2021!
Saturday, December 21, 2019
2019 Christmas Letter
Monday, December 31, 2018
2018 Christmas Letter
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